what to do? LIFE ?

Dear

Greetings.

In LIFE all have the feelings and the attractions.

Situation / Environment / Social / Cultural Background / Position / Status etc. are the controlling factor.

No single answer to any of the problems that you asked.

Expected way none will behave to the other all the time.

May be the expectation is based on the previous experience and that is the mistake that one does !!

No forced relationships exists other than the biological / social / geographical etc..

and people want to get rid of this with the selected new relationships.

The contradiction is due to the indecissiveness in self.

This is true with not just love / life / marriage -

Professionally / selecting the career etc too..

Be with what you are..

and get rooted to your background also.

cool.

Life is to enjoy.

anything troubling .. avoid it. Ignore it..

Enjoying ? - then go ahead.. BUT make sure that IT WILL NEVER make you feel bad later in LIFE.

Sasneham

Dr.T.P.SASIKUMAR

110713

respected sir...

good morning.sir i have one doubt please clarify that thinking as i m u r daughter.

sir if anybody done mistake ...which is related to heart and life of a person then,how should one react to that particular situation?moreover what is best method for him/her giving punishment or forgiving?

if giving punishment is your answer then heart will feel bad...
if other is your answer then in mind so many questions are raising .......

so finally what i m asking is how to coordinate the mind n heart in giving solutions to social related issues particularly related to life,marriage and caste issues.......

sir i don't know i m correct or not for asking this question you but questions are in my mind no one giving correct answer which gives satisfaction to my hear so i am asking you sir......

hope i m getting reply to my mail with satisfied answer which is useful to give justice to necessary persons.

thanking you sir,
yours obediently,

prathima.

BPO Job - LIFE frustration - Career Building !?

Hi Sir

My name is X-female and I am 23 yr old. I have 4 yrs of job experience. Worked as client services manager in an ad agency till last month and I had quit the job. Prior to that I worked in BPO's as Customer care executive, telesales rep, Team leader, Process trainer, HR Recruiter and business developer. I have worked for various departments.

My problem is with my studies and my job life.

I was born in 1988

I passed out my 10th, ssc in 2003 and secured 86%

I passed out my intermediate, bi.p.c in 2005 and secured 67%

I have appeared for EAMCET long term in 2006 and secured 3000 rank

due to financial problems I couldn't join BDS or MBBS in B-category. and my rank dint fetch me seat in A category.

I was forced to join Bsc Microbiology, genetics and chemistry.

Due to family problems and pressures, I was forced to take up job in BPO. I thought I can work in the nights and attend the college in the days, which was much difficult than what I have imagined. It so happened I was forced to discontinue my studies for many reasons, financial, moral, confidence, pressure. I continued with job.

after finishing 2yrs in job, i realized, i needed a degree and qualification to advance further in career. I joined BBA from ICFAI, but never happened I prepared or gave exams. I am so stressed up with job life and personal issues, that I never find time to study. I felt since I am in corporate world and i preferred management subjects which would help me in career. But my interest is in human anatomy, life sciences and psychology. I am even interested in creative work. I realized it very late. I was only taught to study to earn money and get good jobs. But I realized one needs to study according to their interests. Thats the reason why am not able to give BBA exams. I joined Diploma in business management from ISBM, but i never find time to sit with books and study. I even got enrolled for E-MBA. I need qualification to get good job, I job for money and money to pay off all the fees. I love to work with people with good IQ, wisdom, Practical nature, positiveness, leadership.. it is so happening am also working with people who are already frustrated with life and working to make money to run families. I dont want to be one among them.

If i have to join btech or any degree, do you suggest me to spend 3 - 4 more yrs studying... where I wil be 27yrs old with a bachelors degree

I feel lonely missing all the days i needed to spend having friends, but working and feeling all alone. I cant mingle with people of my age cause they are involved in studies and their goals and thoughts are different, I cant get along with elder people cause their responsibilities and aims are different.

Sir please advice me in my studies and career path, am so confused and feeling very low and down.

Thank you

--
Warm Regards

X

WHAT IS LIFE ?

WHAT IS LIFE ?
ammu: sometimes a question comes from my mind which ask me..WHO ARE YOU? ----- I could not find an answer

I say my name...my address...but question repeats

I get plunged in to a situation I cant xplain

am not a believer of rituals and I dont like going to temple and so on... but am not an atheist

DrTPS

we are what we think we are..

ask a police.. they say that..

when kid ask one say father..

we have many roles and we are all that..

but we are not all that..

we are the essence of being all that..

we keep changing..

what is in us is not seen at times like the butter in curd is ..

we will have to exercise us to the greatest extend to find what we realy contain..

it is a good question.. and no answer..

finding out what we are and what for we are in this world is the biggest effort..

getting an answer is the realization.

hope will have this soon.. so that one will be in blissful..

we are like the river, with the name were we flow..

now who are u? u r a student..

when u get married, u will be the wife..

when u get child, u will be the mother..

so nice..

as the river.. keep making all that be in you so happy..

clean all of them..

get the warmth and give the coolness.

that is life..

and all will know you different and .. for me u r a wonderful student..

u r what u think u r..

start being positive on life and flow like a river..

enjoy every bit of life..

and u never get a chance to cover the time and space that u have crossed..

flow like a river and grow like a tree ……

see my books

LIFE made SIMPLE

http://drtps-lifemadesimple.blogspot.com/

LIFE of LOVE

http://drtps-poems.blogspot.com/

VIHE-110313

Goodmorning sir,

Sir, Myself S. Anand, a MCA final year student. I listened to your lecture Last Sunday @ Rkmath Personality Development class. The class was very interesting. Though i couldn't recollect all the points but the Concepts on > Manas > Buddhi > Soul > Heart was very kool. Also on speaking in good language(good words) to everyone around you also was good. It brought some change in me.. But my Major worry is the Presence of Mind. I always been thru this problem. I've been carrying this problem since my childhood. I cannot focus on one thing. Gets lost into Thoughts all the time, while brushing my teeth, eating, studying, while listening, while browsing etc.. As if my life is full of regrets, like at that time it would have been better if i would have done like this, like that etc., Please suggest me sir, i feel if i move on with the same problem, i will be more into deep problems.....


Thanq sir,

With Regards,

Sangram Anand

Dear

Greetings.

Thank you for the nice words and glad on your email and nice words.

I am sure being in this state is little troublesome.

But natural, as the options around and the world is moving fast around.

Dont worry.. I am sure if u follow the learning techniques that is in

http://drtps-exam-study.blogspot.com/2009/03/exam-study-enjoy.html

you can do wonders. Get a good group for learning. U be the leader.

DrTPS

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dear sir,
i want to know what's life and what's livingness
are they both equal or they depend on mind and heart ???

shaik saheb

drtps :

LIFE IS NOT IN OUR CONTROL.

LIVING IS WHAT WE DO.. AND WE COULD DECIDE THE WAY WE WANT, IN MOST CASES AND MAXIMUM.

AFTER PLUS TWO ....

Now, the question is if he could not make it to medical even after dropping one year, then what further opportunities he would get.

MAKE A POSITIVE TRIAL, THIS IS THE BEST OPTION. MANY MAKE IT WHEN TRY FULL TIME .. THAT TOO AT GOOD PLACES.. IN COACHING.

He is good at English and has a fair amount of writing abilities. He can express views effectively. Therefore, we suggested him that he may try 'Law' also. In this scenario, I request you to advise us on the following:

YES GOOD LANGUAGE AND SPECIAL GK AND INTEREST IN SOCIAL ACTIVITY, MAKES IT A GOOD OPTION.

a) Whether there is any harm in pursuing Law after taking Science subjects in plus two.

NOTHING WRONG, SCIENCE LEARNING IN THE EARLY AGES IS A GIFT AS IT INCREASES THE ANALYTICAL ABILITY.

b) Any other opportunities after taking up PCM with Bio in Class XII

MANY, INCLUDING JOBS IN SERVICES, SPECIAL SUBJECTS IN BTECH ETC.. BPHARM , ...

c) would it be of any use if he pursues graduation/post graduation and then do research with Biotech/genetic engineering and so on?

A GOOD OPTION.. LIKE IISER / IISC / IIT / CENTRAL UNIVERSITIES ETC CAN BE TRIED.

d) if he wants to pursue genetic engineering, which are the colleges and what is the admission procedure

OH.. THERE ARE MANY COLLEGES OFFERING THESE.. (MICRO / BIO / NANO ) +GOOD OPTION..

e) What are the opportunities after doing law?

SELF PRACTICE / COPORATE / MNC APPOINTMENTS / GOVT.. / GET SPECIALIZED IN LLM AND GET TO HIGHEST .. CAN PROVE SELF.

f) How is the admission test for Law? Is attending coaching classes necessary or crash course will do?

IT IS BETTER, IF AIMING FOR THE BEST COLLEGES / NATIONAL LAW SCHOOLS..

g) Is there any abnormality in doing Science in Class XII and attending coaching classes for Law?

EITHER SCIENCE / OTHER STREAMS.. EFFORT AND ABILITY AT THIS AGE REQUIRE A DIRECTION..

Life Direction ? where to Go? from an MNC !

Respected sir,

Iam Deepak Lal ,B.E student studying in Vinayaka Missions Engineering College Salem.I would like to do MBA in construction management,can you help me to figure out whether it is an apt choice for me or should i choose M.E.Could you please help me to find out the colleges which are having MBA in construction management in India as well as in abroad.

Glad to see your interest.

If u decide not to opt for MTech, this is the best option.

Including Pune NICMAR; there are many who offer this MBA.

You can find many options on NET.

Good luck.

DrTPS

Hi,
I was browsing through the internet and stumbled upon your event in Hyderabad at 20th March.
Through that I found your blog and came to know more about the shiksha foundation. I must applaud some of the ideas that I found on your site like the concept of one month workshops where people find what they want to do. Too many problems in the world exist because people have no idea what they want to do with their time, what are they passionate about, what moves them and how to go about pursuing those passions. Your talks seemed interesting.

Ask: Could you give me some actual pointers, people to meet, spiritual organizations etc that will help in understanding more about myself.

Brief About me:
I am well educated and fairly well settled into my job as a software engineer in a MNC at Hyderabad. However, looking to explore what I want from life. I am particularly interested in the field of education as it holds the potential of a lot of impact on the world. I am 26 years old and a bachelor.

Thanks
Rohit

Dear

Greetings.

Glad on your email.

I had undergone the same feelings when i was at your age, by then was married and started family life.

Had freedom to move on many directions as I was in government and life flow was reasonably good for me.

If we know what we want, we can be on that.

To know what is that we are looking for, we need to ponder, search, taste, experience different situations, toil, walk, travel, be in different group, what not?

Learn anything and everything around, this struggle will end and slowly and steadily will end in the spiritual pointer, as you said.

By then you will be the pointer yourself.

It is not the aim, it is the travel.

I am with you dear, love to see you some time soon.

Will be glad on the participation of you and a nice group of your flops..

Your question is a good input for me to think.

See this point is addressed for 20th session..

FREEDOM is more important to be Creative.

God bless you to be in blissful.

Sasneham

Dr.T.P.SASIKUMAR

GLOBAL ENGINEERING COLLEGE, Hyderabad - 110305- Questions

Q, Why do people believe in God

DrTPS - They get happiness and feel some presence of energy that protect them.

Q. Why people are not feeling the social responsibility

DrTPS - It is not true. many people are into social responsibility. They are not guided properly and the result seen is less.

Q. Why the people are becoming selfish than being collective?

DrTPS - By birth all are good. The society, especially the selfish parents make their kids so and the chain follows. The upcoming youth are better and have better hope for tomorrow.

Q, How to act upon inspired of some one’s biography.

DrTPS – Take the theme, functional lessons and the courage, conviction, dignity that they had. Apply this lessons in our life. God bless you.

Q, How to develop Leadership Qualities?

DrTPS – Be selfish and love everyone around in the way that their happiness is your concern. You will soon be a leader. I am with you. I Loved this question. Let u be a leader for the world.

Q. Solution for restless mind?

DrTPS – better to be one with restless mind. That means u r thinking. It is good. Learn to direct / concentrate too.

Q. What is the need of this impractical education?

DrTPS – It is not the education is bad, not the subjects and the framework. They are good. Teachers are bad. And it is the chain reaction of the system.

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Q. How to build confidence? How to overcome nervousness ?

DrTPS – Confidence comes from skill, environment, attitude. Best practice too can give confidence, that is included in skill.

Q. Never satisfied, why?

DrTPS – I suggest never to get satisfied. Desire is what make one progressive. BUT be always happy. Satisfaction is not good but shouldn’t lead to unhappiness.

Q. no practical experience, why govt cant do the changes?

DrTPS – Don’t expect govt to do anything. It is we who ahev to change the govt. I wish educated people get into the govt and change the system.

Q. Bio terrorism is a problem, what to do?

DrTPS – We need to strengthen the research in this area. Bioterrorism is not very active as the counter effect on the country is as dangerous and thus it is not a major threat.

Q. How to control heart (feelings) when one is effected by harmful disease?

DrTPS – How long we live is not important, but live like a fire, happy and spreading light to others than being sad, smoky and suffering. “Nimisham jwalitham sreyam, nathu dhoomayithum chiram”

Q. How to overcome laziness?

DrTPS – It is the greatest disease many have . Think of enjoying with activity, and make the life more active for learning, earning and fame. That gives a better long term happiness than short term happiness being lazy. Life is to LIVE. Live In Full Enjoyment. Being with smart / active people one cant be lazy. Environment matters.

Q. Electromagnetic waves will have effect on brain / memory? What are the other health problems ?

DrTPS – Electro Magentic waves do have UNDEFINED influence on health. It could be increasing memory to dampening it. Constant radiation is harmful. Though mild, like the Cell Phone can have great harmful effect to brain and other part of the body, where it is in constant long term contact.

Q. How to improve the communication skills.

DrTPS – Read, Learn, Improve information, Practice Communication. Be casual but serious and confident. Get formatted and skill in knowledge will support communication. Understand the difference between communication and conversation.

Q. How to improve concentration?

DrTPS – Interest is the key for concentration.

Q. How to improve memory?

DrTPS – all have best memory. Use it well.

Q. How spirituality helps education ?

DrTPS – better mind control, sharp intellect, good health and love for the society are the prime steps of spiritual. All will support education and creativity.

Q. How to decide the goal?

DrTPS – don’t decide the goal, early. Keep it flexible. May be as u grow, u will see the options. Go through the path that u may not get after a while. Options are to be decided by interest. Nothing wrong if the desire keep changing.

Q. How to maintain grip on subject ?

DrTPS – learn, discuss, teach and debate. Make notes and teaching / learning materials. Document it well.

Q. How to become a successful student ?

DrTPS – Ask as many questions as one can on the learning subject. Gain maximum knowledge. Learn to teach.

Q. How to make mind tension freee?

DrTPS – Tension is negative, non productive. Take stress, act fast and best. Get the situations and attitude for the success. Gain maximum skill. Never be in hurry and do it cool in advance. Practice as many times as required. Understand all can’t do everything. If you have interest never it is a tension activity. Enjoy .

Q. How to overcome stage fear ? mixing in a crowd?

DrTPS – Understand all are our relatives / friends. They have no extra credit, they are as good or bad as you. Chest and shoulder up. Keep yourself, think that u r 10 years higher than ur present age. Behave like a gentleman, and u will be that. Practice matter. Prepare well. God bless you

Q, how to get interest over the studies ? do well in exams?

DrTPS – must understand the use and application of what we learn. Also have the future plan and decide that u r learning to gain knowledge. Interest is th key to concentrate and learn better. Decide that what you learn will be shared to some others, you will leanr better. Learned and practiced well for writing can perform well in exams.

Q. How to overcome outside problems and show interest in studies.

DrTPS – have a nice group to learn and discuss together, all are influenced by the peer group. Try to change the members in your company to become good or Change the group. See

http://drtps-exam-study.blogspot.com/2009/03/exam-study-enjoy.html

Q. Tell us about relation between god and human being.

DrTPS – God is a concept (sankalpam) that human made to show the supreme power that human hold. That energy that pervades everywhere and that is not controlled by self. A nature of energy in and out. Once we get it in “hrudaya guhara madhye kevalam brahma matthram” . Inside the heart, only brahma the energy God exist.

Q. How to get to practical applications on the topic of learning? What field will give success for me, how to know this? How to compete with growing technology?

DrTPS – Learning must be a passion, and ponder too deep, discuss to understand all the aspects of it. Nothing in professional learning is without application. Understand it well. Job / Career / Life and success are to be decided by many factors. What is success for one need not be for other, scale and parameters changes. ENJOY life, that matters . Not an Enjoyment that makes us to be sad on that later in life. Learning new technology and field is nto competing, it is a passion like that a mount climber has and then it becomes thrilling and interesting. Take learning with spirit.

Q, Difference between manas and buddhi ?

DrTPS – Manas is having desire / need / want / feelings etc.. BUDDHI is practical .. logical etc..

See

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2548593051163020753&kw=manas+and+buddhi

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2541174090012151249&kw=manas+and+buddhi

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2542519052578442705&kw=manas+and+buddhi

Q, Is our age is correct for love ?

DrTPS – Any age is good for love and correct. BUT love is a disease. That kills other interest at times. That is dangerous. It shouldn’t be a war, not a job, only it must happen and for happiness at times of enjoyment, to share, care and enjoy each other. BUT many a times that is a burden, a bondage. Take care !!

see posting at

http://drtps-psychotherapy.blogspot.com/2011/03/global-engineering-college-hyderabad.html

also see

http://drtps-shiksha.blogspot.com/2011/03/creativity-to-power-of-infinity-anushas.html

http://drtps-lecture-topics.blogspot.com/

truth - vs. happiness

sir,

which is better either the TRUTH or HAPPINESS??

If we are to make someone happy it needs mangement with false because truth is bitter.

Then what is the solution?

pls do reply sir.

awaiting for ur reply,thanking you sir,

yours obediently,

M.NAVEEN CHAND.

Dear

Greetings.

TRUTH ONLY PREVAILS.

IT IS UNHAPPINESS AT TIMES AS FALSE TOO..

BUT PERMANENT HAPPINESS IS WHEN TRUTH IS IN ACTION.

FALSE SHALL MAKE US FEEL BAD LATER, IF NOT IMMEDIATE.

DO YOU WNAT A SITUATION TO BE UNHAPPY LATER, OR GET A CONSTANT, CONTINUOUS HAPPINESS?

GOD BLESS YOU.

Sasneham

Dr.T.P.SASIKUMAR

Key for Success

1. Attitude
Bloom where you are planted. You have a choice to get back up after temporary set backs. Attitude is a small thing that makes a big difference!

2. Direction
If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there. Write your short term goals down on paper. I have discovered and continue to discover that putting your dreams and goals down on paper lock in or focus your belief that they can be achieved--even if you have to take a course correction in achieving your goals. Success comes in cans, failure comes in can'ts.

3. Values
Explore what is important to you. Maybe it is family, friends, your spirituality or working hard at any given task. I can assure you that your priorities will change as you grow older. Very important that you value yourself and treat yourself like the valuable gift from God that you are.

4. Interests
Birds of a feather flock together. This is to say that if you are hanging around winners or others with a "can do" mind-set, you'll likely adapt to this same kind of thinking. Remember--"SUCCESS LEAVES CLUES!

5. Commitment
Feelings may change, commitments do not. "Success is getting up one more time than you fall." I have often wanted to give up, and then I must think to myself about what the consequences of giving up will be. Generally, this is more than enough of a motivation to make us stick to the task at hand even if we don't feel like it. When the task is achieved, Whow!--IT FEELS GREAT!

6. Encouragement
Be an encourager and comforter to friends that are feeling discouraged. I promise that you will not regret this as you will be encouraged by one, if not many, when you are feeling down. Encouragement and love are contagious qualities that can change the minds of the most stubborn and "hard-to-get- along-with" people you know. I have seen it happen over and over again.