VIHE-110313

Goodmorning sir,

Sir, Myself S. Anand, a MCA final year student. I listened to your lecture Last Sunday @ Rkmath Personality Development class. The class was very interesting. Though i couldn't recollect all the points but the Concepts on > Manas > Buddhi > Soul > Heart was very kool. Also on speaking in good language(good words) to everyone around you also was good. It brought some change in me.. But my Major worry is the Presence of Mind. I always been thru this problem. I've been carrying this problem since my childhood. I cannot focus on one thing. Gets lost into Thoughts all the time, while brushing my teeth, eating, studying, while listening, while browsing etc.. As if my life is full of regrets, like at that time it would have been better if i would have done like this, like that etc., Please suggest me sir, i feel if i move on with the same problem, i will be more into deep problems.....


Thanq sir,

With Regards,

Sangram Anand

Dear

Greetings.

Thank you for the nice words and glad on your email and nice words.

I am sure being in this state is little troublesome.

But natural, as the options around and the world is moving fast around.

Dont worry.. I am sure if u follow the learning techniques that is in

http://drtps-exam-study.blogspot.com/2009/03/exam-study-enjoy.html

you can do wonders. Get a good group for learning. U be the leader.

DrTPS

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dear sir,
i want to know what's life and what's livingness
are they both equal or they depend on mind and heart ???

shaik saheb

drtps :

LIFE IS NOT IN OUR CONTROL.

LIVING IS WHAT WE DO.. AND WE COULD DECIDE THE WAY WE WANT, IN MOST CASES AND MAXIMUM.

AFTER PLUS TWO ....

Now, the question is if he could not make it to medical even after dropping one year, then what further opportunities he would get.

MAKE A POSITIVE TRIAL, THIS IS THE BEST OPTION. MANY MAKE IT WHEN TRY FULL TIME .. THAT TOO AT GOOD PLACES.. IN COACHING.

He is good at English and has a fair amount of writing abilities. He can express views effectively. Therefore, we suggested him that he may try 'Law' also. In this scenario, I request you to advise us on the following:

YES GOOD LANGUAGE AND SPECIAL GK AND INTEREST IN SOCIAL ACTIVITY, MAKES IT A GOOD OPTION.

a) Whether there is any harm in pursuing Law after taking Science subjects in plus two.

NOTHING WRONG, SCIENCE LEARNING IN THE EARLY AGES IS A GIFT AS IT INCREASES THE ANALYTICAL ABILITY.

b) Any other opportunities after taking up PCM with Bio in Class XII

MANY, INCLUDING JOBS IN SERVICES, SPECIAL SUBJECTS IN BTECH ETC.. BPHARM , ...

c) would it be of any use if he pursues graduation/post graduation and then do research with Biotech/genetic engineering and so on?

A GOOD OPTION.. LIKE IISER / IISC / IIT / CENTRAL UNIVERSITIES ETC CAN BE TRIED.

d) if he wants to pursue genetic engineering, which are the colleges and what is the admission procedure

OH.. THERE ARE MANY COLLEGES OFFERING THESE.. (MICRO / BIO / NANO ) +GOOD OPTION..

e) What are the opportunities after doing law?

SELF PRACTICE / COPORATE / MNC APPOINTMENTS / GOVT.. / GET SPECIALIZED IN LLM AND GET TO HIGHEST .. CAN PROVE SELF.

f) How is the admission test for Law? Is attending coaching classes necessary or crash course will do?

IT IS BETTER, IF AIMING FOR THE BEST COLLEGES / NATIONAL LAW SCHOOLS..

g) Is there any abnormality in doing Science in Class XII and attending coaching classes for Law?

EITHER SCIENCE / OTHER STREAMS.. EFFORT AND ABILITY AT THIS AGE REQUIRE A DIRECTION..

Life Direction ? where to Go? from an MNC !

Respected sir,

Iam Deepak Lal ,B.E student studying in Vinayaka Missions Engineering College Salem.I would like to do MBA in construction management,can you help me to figure out whether it is an apt choice for me or should i choose M.E.Could you please help me to find out the colleges which are having MBA in construction management in India as well as in abroad.

Glad to see your interest.

If u decide not to opt for MTech, this is the best option.

Including Pune NICMAR; there are many who offer this MBA.

You can find many options on NET.

Good luck.

DrTPS

Hi,
I was browsing through the internet and stumbled upon your event in Hyderabad at 20th March.
Through that I found your blog and came to know more about the shiksha foundation. I must applaud some of the ideas that I found on your site like the concept of one month workshops where people find what they want to do. Too many problems in the world exist because people have no idea what they want to do with their time, what are they passionate about, what moves them and how to go about pursuing those passions. Your talks seemed interesting.

Ask: Could you give me some actual pointers, people to meet, spiritual organizations etc that will help in understanding more about myself.

Brief About me:
I am well educated and fairly well settled into my job as a software engineer in a MNC at Hyderabad. However, looking to explore what I want from life. I am particularly interested in the field of education as it holds the potential of a lot of impact on the world. I am 26 years old and a bachelor.

Thanks
Rohit

Dear

Greetings.

Glad on your email.

I had undergone the same feelings when i was at your age, by then was married and started family life.

Had freedom to move on many directions as I was in government and life flow was reasonably good for me.

If we know what we want, we can be on that.

To know what is that we are looking for, we need to ponder, search, taste, experience different situations, toil, walk, travel, be in different group, what not?

Learn anything and everything around, this struggle will end and slowly and steadily will end in the spiritual pointer, as you said.

By then you will be the pointer yourself.

It is not the aim, it is the travel.

I am with you dear, love to see you some time soon.

Will be glad on the participation of you and a nice group of your flops..

Your question is a good input for me to think.

See this point is addressed for 20th session..

FREEDOM is more important to be Creative.

God bless you to be in blissful.

Sasneham

Dr.T.P.SASIKUMAR

GLOBAL ENGINEERING COLLEGE, Hyderabad - 110305- Questions

Q, Why do people believe in God

DrTPS - They get happiness and feel some presence of energy that protect them.

Q. Why people are not feeling the social responsibility

DrTPS - It is not true. many people are into social responsibility. They are not guided properly and the result seen is less.

Q. Why the people are becoming selfish than being collective?

DrTPS - By birth all are good. The society, especially the selfish parents make their kids so and the chain follows. The upcoming youth are better and have better hope for tomorrow.

Q, How to act upon inspired of some one’s biography.

DrTPS – Take the theme, functional lessons and the courage, conviction, dignity that they had. Apply this lessons in our life. God bless you.

Q, How to develop Leadership Qualities?

DrTPS – Be selfish and love everyone around in the way that their happiness is your concern. You will soon be a leader. I am with you. I Loved this question. Let u be a leader for the world.

Q. Solution for restless mind?

DrTPS – better to be one with restless mind. That means u r thinking. It is good. Learn to direct / concentrate too.

Q. What is the need of this impractical education?

DrTPS – It is not the education is bad, not the subjects and the framework. They are good. Teachers are bad. And it is the chain reaction of the system.

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Q. How to build confidence? How to overcome nervousness ?

DrTPS – Confidence comes from skill, environment, attitude. Best practice too can give confidence, that is included in skill.

Q. Never satisfied, why?

DrTPS – I suggest never to get satisfied. Desire is what make one progressive. BUT be always happy. Satisfaction is not good but shouldn’t lead to unhappiness.

Q. no practical experience, why govt cant do the changes?

DrTPS – Don’t expect govt to do anything. It is we who ahev to change the govt. I wish educated people get into the govt and change the system.

Q. Bio terrorism is a problem, what to do?

DrTPS – We need to strengthen the research in this area. Bioterrorism is not very active as the counter effect on the country is as dangerous and thus it is not a major threat.

Q. How to control heart (feelings) when one is effected by harmful disease?

DrTPS – How long we live is not important, but live like a fire, happy and spreading light to others than being sad, smoky and suffering. “Nimisham jwalitham sreyam, nathu dhoomayithum chiram”

Q. How to overcome laziness?

DrTPS – It is the greatest disease many have . Think of enjoying with activity, and make the life more active for learning, earning and fame. That gives a better long term happiness than short term happiness being lazy. Life is to LIVE. Live In Full Enjoyment. Being with smart / active people one cant be lazy. Environment matters.

Q. Electromagnetic waves will have effect on brain / memory? What are the other health problems ?

DrTPS – Electro Magentic waves do have UNDEFINED influence on health. It could be increasing memory to dampening it. Constant radiation is harmful. Though mild, like the Cell Phone can have great harmful effect to brain and other part of the body, where it is in constant long term contact.

Q. How to improve the communication skills.

DrTPS – Read, Learn, Improve information, Practice Communication. Be casual but serious and confident. Get formatted and skill in knowledge will support communication. Understand the difference between communication and conversation.

Q. How to improve concentration?

DrTPS – Interest is the key for concentration.

Q. How to improve memory?

DrTPS – all have best memory. Use it well.

Q. How spirituality helps education ?

DrTPS – better mind control, sharp intellect, good health and love for the society are the prime steps of spiritual. All will support education and creativity.

Q. How to decide the goal?

DrTPS – don’t decide the goal, early. Keep it flexible. May be as u grow, u will see the options. Go through the path that u may not get after a while. Options are to be decided by interest. Nothing wrong if the desire keep changing.

Q. How to maintain grip on subject ?

DrTPS – learn, discuss, teach and debate. Make notes and teaching / learning materials. Document it well.

Q. How to become a successful student ?

DrTPS – Ask as many questions as one can on the learning subject. Gain maximum knowledge. Learn to teach.

Q. How to make mind tension freee?

DrTPS – Tension is negative, non productive. Take stress, act fast and best. Get the situations and attitude for the success. Gain maximum skill. Never be in hurry and do it cool in advance. Practice as many times as required. Understand all can’t do everything. If you have interest never it is a tension activity. Enjoy .

Q. How to overcome stage fear ? mixing in a crowd?

DrTPS – Understand all are our relatives / friends. They have no extra credit, they are as good or bad as you. Chest and shoulder up. Keep yourself, think that u r 10 years higher than ur present age. Behave like a gentleman, and u will be that. Practice matter. Prepare well. God bless you

Q, how to get interest over the studies ? do well in exams?

DrTPS – must understand the use and application of what we learn. Also have the future plan and decide that u r learning to gain knowledge. Interest is th key to concentrate and learn better. Decide that what you learn will be shared to some others, you will leanr better. Learned and practiced well for writing can perform well in exams.

Q. How to overcome outside problems and show interest in studies.

DrTPS – have a nice group to learn and discuss together, all are influenced by the peer group. Try to change the members in your company to become good or Change the group. See

http://drtps-exam-study.blogspot.com/2009/03/exam-study-enjoy.html

Q. Tell us about relation between god and human being.

DrTPS – God is a concept (sankalpam) that human made to show the supreme power that human hold. That energy that pervades everywhere and that is not controlled by self. A nature of energy in and out. Once we get it in “hrudaya guhara madhye kevalam brahma matthram” . Inside the heart, only brahma the energy God exist.

Q. How to get to practical applications on the topic of learning? What field will give success for me, how to know this? How to compete with growing technology?

DrTPS – Learning must be a passion, and ponder too deep, discuss to understand all the aspects of it. Nothing in professional learning is without application. Understand it well. Job / Career / Life and success are to be decided by many factors. What is success for one need not be for other, scale and parameters changes. ENJOY life, that matters . Not an Enjoyment that makes us to be sad on that later in life. Learning new technology and field is nto competing, it is a passion like that a mount climber has and then it becomes thrilling and interesting. Take learning with spirit.

Q, Difference between manas and buddhi ?

DrTPS – Manas is having desire / need / want / feelings etc.. BUDDHI is practical .. logical etc..

See

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2548593051163020753&kw=manas+and+buddhi

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2541174090012151249&kw=manas+and+buddhi

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs?cmm=29711954&tid=2542519052578442705&kw=manas+and+buddhi

Q, Is our age is correct for love ?

DrTPS – Any age is good for love and correct. BUT love is a disease. That kills other interest at times. That is dangerous. It shouldn’t be a war, not a job, only it must happen and for happiness at times of enjoyment, to share, care and enjoy each other. BUT many a times that is a burden, a bondage. Take care !!

see posting at

http://drtps-psychotherapy.blogspot.com/2011/03/global-engineering-college-hyderabad.html

also see

http://drtps-shiksha.blogspot.com/2011/03/creativity-to-power-of-infinity-anushas.html

http://drtps-lecture-topics.blogspot.com/

truth - vs. happiness

sir,

which is better either the TRUTH or HAPPINESS??

If we are to make someone happy it needs mangement with false because truth is bitter.

Then what is the solution?

pls do reply sir.

awaiting for ur reply,thanking you sir,

yours obediently,

M.NAVEEN CHAND.

Dear

Greetings.

TRUTH ONLY PREVAILS.

IT IS UNHAPPINESS AT TIMES AS FALSE TOO..

BUT PERMANENT HAPPINESS IS WHEN TRUTH IS IN ACTION.

FALSE SHALL MAKE US FEEL BAD LATER, IF NOT IMMEDIATE.

DO YOU WNAT A SITUATION TO BE UNHAPPY LATER, OR GET A CONSTANT, CONTINUOUS HAPPINESS?

GOD BLESS YOU.

Sasneham

Dr.T.P.SASIKUMAR

Key for Success

1. Attitude
Bloom where you are planted. You have a choice to get back up after temporary set backs. Attitude is a small thing that makes a big difference!

2. Direction
If you don't know where you are going, any road will get you there. Write your short term goals down on paper. I have discovered and continue to discover that putting your dreams and goals down on paper lock in or focus your belief that they can be achieved--even if you have to take a course correction in achieving your goals. Success comes in cans, failure comes in can'ts.

3. Values
Explore what is important to you. Maybe it is family, friends, your spirituality or working hard at any given task. I can assure you that your priorities will change as you grow older. Very important that you value yourself and treat yourself like the valuable gift from God that you are.

4. Interests
Birds of a feather flock together. This is to say that if you are hanging around winners or others with a "can do" mind-set, you'll likely adapt to this same kind of thinking. Remember--"SUCCESS LEAVES CLUES!

5. Commitment
Feelings may change, commitments do not. "Success is getting up one more time than you fall." I have often wanted to give up, and then I must think to myself about what the consequences of giving up will be. Generally, this is more than enough of a motivation to make us stick to the task at hand even if we don't feel like it. When the task is achieved, Whow!--IT FEELS GREAT!

6. Encouragement
Be an encourager and comforter to friends that are feeling discouraged. I promise that you will not regret this as you will be encouraged by one, if not many, when you are feeling down. Encouragement and love are contagious qualities that can change the minds of the most stubborn and "hard-to-get- along-with" people you know. I have seen it happen over and over again.

P may be better from now.. My prayers for him too..

Thank you for your time and evaluation of P. He seems to exhibit a good confidence in your approach. To start with he was not eager to come and meet you. But after the meeting he thinks it was good that he came to see you. He seems to have relieved meetings he da lot.

The earlier meetings of P with Dr L and Dr. S was a sort of meetings he do not want to repeat. How ever P said on the way back that he would be happy to meet you rather than seeing the formers.

He seems a lot relived and that is the good part of this visit and thanks for the guidance.

I got the the timings of Ps' as recorded by his grand father, if it is of any academic interest to you. The scanned copy of his writings is attached.

Time is recorded as 8:15 PM on 9th Jan 1987 but Nal is recorded as Karthika. Scanned copy of his original record is attached.

Regards,

J