100801.hyd.wevin. QUESTIONS by BTech Students

HOW TO CONTROL ANXIETY ? – If anxiety / stress is productive, it is good and can make positive actions. For any serious matter, preparation is a must and that is seen as anxiety / stress. Tension is highly negative and non-productive, that need to be resolved through counseling

WHEN WILL BE THE ANOTHER CLASS? – I do not schedule my classes, mostly it is on invitation from someone.

WHO IS YOUR INSPIRATION? – I have many from Gandhiji, Vivekananda, and many more around me who are not famous. I have taken lot of lessons from many in life.

HOW WE CAN CHANGE THE BAD MIND OF OTHERS? – only when one has to decide himself to change, it is possible to change. A good sathsang (company) can change the people.

AS I CAME TO KNOW LEARNING IS FROM COLLECTION AND SET IT IN THE RIGHT PATH, HOW TO KEEP IT IN THE RIGHT WAY? – must have a clear vision, and idea about the target. That will determine the path. Good skill, attitude and also the opportunity will make the things clear.

HOW TO FORGET THE DREAMS ? – not all the dreams are remembered, only one that is seen just before the break of sleep is remembered. A deep sleep will avoid dreams.

HOW TO BECOME A VEGITARIAN? – decide to be vegetarian. Think of the animal at the time of it being killed. And the blood that oozes out.

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HOW CAN WE TAKE THE DECISION AT RITGHT TIME? – presence of mind, is one important quality of one. Being smart. That need special mind. Slight improvement is possible with little training and also being with people who are smart.

HOW CAN WE BUILD SET- CONFIDENCE ? – confidence comes with skill, opportunity and attitude. One who has good attitude will search opportunity and will exercise / practice ti improve skill. Repeated practice without failure will improve confidence.

HOW TO REDUCE THE CONFUSION IN MAKING DECISION? – involving in critical situations, being creative, skillfull, high presence of mind will reduce the confusion.

HOW WE GET OUT OF LAZINESS? – HOW WE AVOID SLEEPING IN UNNECESSARY TIME? - decide to be active. Every moment being active is living. Being lazy is as good dead. No point in living an inactive life. Our presence need to be shown with activity.

HOW TO SET MY MIND SIR, SO THAT I CAN DO WHATEVER I THINK AS I HAD A GOOD EMBITION FOR WHICH I HAD PREPARED TIME TABLE, BUT I CAN’T FOLLOW MY TIME TABLE. - remember every moment in life can be a good investment for a brighter day ahead. Also need to enjoy the present. Creative, blissfull, fulfillment in action, that will lead one to highest levels. Action is more important than plans.

HOW DO WE SELCT THE RIGHT THING? - HOW TO MAKE MY AMBITIONS MORE STONGER WITHOUT ANY FLUCTUATIONS OR ANY DOUBT ON IT? – decide to do. Jump into actions. Right and wrong is relative, where, when, who, to whom, when etc. does matters. One could do things that are enjoyable and makes happy, but that will never make one feel that what was done was wrong and shouldn’t have done.

AT ANY TIME YOU HAVE ANY THINGS TO DO WHICH YOU LOVE TO DO, BUT NOT ABLE TO DECIDE WHAT TO DO THE FIRST ? – any plan is useless. Action is important. Action also can be parallel. Priority and need of the hour is important. Be creative and smart in actions.

I CAME FROM TELUGU MEDIUM, HOW CAN I IMPROVE MY ENGLISH LANGUAGE COMMUNICATION ? – read English daily. Comprehend, talk to people in English. Decide to learn and start from now. It is easy to learn language.

I CAN SPEAK VERY CLOSE TO MY FRIENDS, BUT WHY CAN’T I GIVE A SEMINAR THOUGH I HAVE A GREAT DESIRE? – while speaking to your friend, you speak from heart. Learning is not in heart. Keep high interest and passion in learning and be cool as if you are. Practice well, you will be able to make presentation as simple, smart, cool and perfect as you are interacting with friends.

I ALWAYS BE IN THE WAY YOU SAID, BUT WHEN I SEE PEOPLE WHO BEHAVE IN THE OPPOSITE WAY, I FEEL THEY ARE LEADING BETTER LIFE THAN ME. IN OTHER WARDS, I AM NOT ABLE TO ENJOY MY SUCCESS. – small failures and success of others shouldn’t be the parameter of our actions. Decide what is that gives us happiness. That must be the fulfillment / satisfaction that we derive in our life. It is important to be self-satisfied and accomplished. Be within to be happy, than feeling happy, and showing happy.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MIND AND THE BUDDHI? –

NOT Correct -- BRAIN says

NOT correct is what brain (buddhi) says.

The heart, feelings, the desire is from the manas.

manas acts fast

buddhi sligtly later

as the action is taken and buddhi says not correct

else

the buddhi says dont or diferent and the action is not done

then the manas will get upset

when manas and buddhi says same thing

the action is best

and we become happy.

BG says

uddharethathmanathmaanam

athmaanamavasaadhayeth

athmaivahyathmano bandhu

athmaivaripurathmanaha.

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"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

-- Mother Teresa .

being 100% nonjudgemental is not possible but we all can try atlaest to the optimum level... this can solve ost batels in world.

NIharika.

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Love is the art of heart.

Judgement is the business of Head

It is difficult to be in art and business.

Good head and good heart will not be with one.

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Both are Leaders

manas and bhuddhi.

That is the answer.

Both are leaders..

at times ..

head leads and at times manas.

some time they comment on the other too.

that is what makes people unhappy.

both are right and both are wrong.

head is emotionaly wrong

manas is intellectually wrong.

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U feel LOST.....

Animals dont think of others / past / future

when they have to deal with a situation

Thus they are happy and sad

in core

to the heart

Human is a

social being

So become

intellectual

thinks on past/future/around

and reacts.

theya er not reactions

they are manupulated responses.

they are not from heart

THUS allmost all reactions

are agains the SELF

makes them

more

UPSET

Feels Unhappy

totally LOST at times

What to DO

React as we could,

dont reserve

Come what may come.

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If we listen only to the manas, we will enjoy...

If we listen only to the buddhi, we will be more sad....

Dharmic is living without hurting others, Dharma is the business of buddhi

LET the manas be the KYTE with the Buddhi as the THREAD to control...

leave the manas as far as possible, but hold with buddhi at times to have the safe fly....

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Mind is not Brain

Mind is software

Brain is hardware

Mind is a flow of thoughts.. The thoughts get filled...

that may happen through Brain..

Feeligs are part of Mind

Then Mind means Heart.

Not the Heart that pumps blood.

That heart that u can share and give to some one too...

That heart that pains at times when some one is away from u

that gets and we dont say the mind is in pain

we say the heart is in pain

Using english words confuses more

that is why i used

buddhi and manas.

think with ur mind / buddhi

love with ur heart. / manas

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Mind is software

Brain is hardware

Mind is a flow of thoughts.. The thoughts get filled...

that may happen through Brain..

Feeligs are part of Mind

Then Mind means Heart.

Not the Heart that pumps blood.

That heart that u can share and give to some one too...

That heart that pains at times when some one is away from u

that gets and we dont say the mind is in pain

we say the heart is in pain

Using english words confuses more

that is why i used

buddhi and manas.

think with ur mind / buddhi

love with ur heart. / manas

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Who talks to u Maximum..

We talks to us maximum

If our SELF - Communication is good.

It means we have good communication skill

The creative self-talk

BUT many times the self talk is waste..

People are thus not creative..

95 % of the thought process of a given day is what we think / though yesterday..

Increase fresh / good / new thought process.

That is talking to self.. more and more creative..

Thus we ourself become the friend and enemy to US

Change ur enemy to friend and friend to enemy

all by the self talk.

Get into a clear mind..

The Sapthasuddhi.

Clean the indriya.

clean the thinking

Thus clean the MANAS.

Through a clean slef-talk

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The heart that fails .. and life is off.

what we don't have is themanas...

the daya..

the karunyam..

the sympathy..

The heart surgeon ...

he does the open heart !!!

may be i am scared..

my old secrets will be open for him..

to see, read, ...

Oh!! those secrets...

no that is not wise..

No open heart surgery ...

or get it from other doctor.

who don't have my mother tongue..

let him not see my feelings too

or else, does the feelings have language??

the humanity in human..

we are human being,,

but are not

being human..

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Who am I????

I am

Me

the chith

chaithanyam

thejas

pranan

ego

athma

manas

buddhi

life

life force energy

all

and

not the one we see

the conciousness in the cell

and not the cell

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how to begain dhyana

enjoy being natural

get skill in what u do.

relax

one easy method for general public is by bhajan

that in the good group will make people to forget all.

then get into the nidra, savasana.

enjoy being in that stage.

one another method is

relax

and enjoy the breathing

concentrate on the breathing only

what is liked by one

do it in the cool, calm mode

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Yes, when COOL, this works

When one is upset.

this japa, counting,

concentration ???

all will not work.

even when one is with god, when upset ...

will not take u to god.

indriya nigraha...

only when one gets to vairagya...

not very easy..

may be the LKG class is these techniques..

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A racing mind that reacts sensitively to little things indicates thinking that has lost its spiritual strength. Meditation restores that power.

But to reach at this level.....

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BODY and MIND

sareera manaso yoga

parasparamanurvajeth

aadhaara aadheya bhavena

thapthajya khadayoriva

What is to be fit first, manas or sareera.

They need to get into the level of that of GOD..

That joining to GOD is YOGA.

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yes dhyana ...

For some one driving is dhyana

for some one maidhunam is dhyana

it all depends

all the best

enjoy

being

in

dhyana...

btech / gitam university studnets' - questions - ANS

Do you get scared of anything at anytime in your life?

- may be many scared times in young childhood days, as any ordinary one have, and I am just one among you. When I was a student till bsc. Had no electricity at home and was scared of dark. Was too much worried of future many a times. May be for the last 20 years.. no issues .. no worries.. even now but is scared of deep water, as I had an accident in my early age, during then I lost my sister and father.

can I have more tips from you so that I can get inspired in my life to do good things ?

– I suggest you to read, read the stories of people who served and is living in our hearts. Also remember no rich, learned, famous live in the heart of people. Make difference to someone’s life. They will be with you for ever. But serve without expecting any return, that is service.

what are the situations that made you happiest and also angriest ?

– MANY OCCASIONS ARE IN LIFE THAT GAVE THESE EXTREMES, AS IT COULD BE FOR ANYONE. I AM JUST ORDINARY AND IS ONE AMONG YOU. BUT FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS HAD MORE HAPPINESS THAN ANGRY. I LEARNED THAT ANGRY WILL NEVER SOLVE ANY PROBLEM. WE COULD FIND MANY REASONS TO BE HAPPY.

can I know the secret of your success?

– SUCCESS IS MEASURED AGAINST THE HOPE / AIM / DESIRE THAT ONE HAVE IN LIFE. I KEEP MAKING SHORT AIMS AND KEEP SHIFTING, AND MUST HAVE ACHIEVED MANY SUCH MILE-STONES. HAD MANY FAILURES TOO. SHIFT THE PACE AND COURSE FOR MAKING ACTIVITY AND LIFE BETTER AND HIGHER. AM I SUCCESSFUL, OR STILL ON MOVE TO BE ? TIME WILL MAKE THINGS CLEAR, BUT WILL FLOW LIKE A RIVER AND GROW LIKE A TREE.

how to get rid of inferiority complex and build confidence ?

- TO PERFORM NEED TO HAVE SKILL, OPPORTUNITY AND ABOVE ALL ATTITUDE. KEEP YOUR SKILL SHOWING WITH PEOPLE AROUND, YOUR SMALL GROUPS. RELIEVE YOUR EGO AND BE SIMPLE THAT IS THE PATH TO REDUCE INFERIORITY COMPLEX. KEEP PRACTICE TO IMPROVE EXPERIENCE TO GAIN CONFIDENCE.

do you think this modern education brings out the best in human or the vedic literature ? if you support vedic literature then why are students of our age trained to be something which they are not ?

– VEDIC LITERATURE AND BEST IN HUMAN SHALL NOT BE THE AIM OF MODERN EDUCATION. THE INDIAN LIFE / CULTURE WILL BE LIVING IN THE HEART OF THE PEOPLE FOR EVER. DHARMA IS THE ONE NEED TO PRACTICE AND THESE DAYS MANY ARE GETTING BACK TO THIS STYLES.

how can help the people who are living in orphanage ?

– Help need to be given those who need it. I am sure the people in orphanage require help. Be on your feet, secure a good job and nice career, a successful life. On the move always you will be able to give support (non-materialistic) or will be able to be a role player to get the support from some resources till you will be able to do it yourself. You may teach them by yourself whenever you get time and space for that. Let god give you the ways. For those who have desire, ways will get opened up. Prayers for this wonderful thought.

how to get full concentration on what we are learning? – how can a student recollect all the points and present it in the examination ? - how to get good marks ? how to reduce stress during exams ? how to reduce tension after exam result ? --

Read before attending the class, in the class you will be able to concentrate more. Make points while reading. Discuss with friends before and after the class. Make question paper and exchange to answer. Evaluate and discuss on the answer sheet. Make learning interesting, concentration will increase.

how to get rid of stage fear ? -

Stage fear will go when good knowledge added with nice communication skill is acquired. Keep practicing on stage.

I had friend – she doesn’t study. I do not know whether she is interested in studies or not, but as a good friend I want to make her in good position with good salary and satisfaction.

– one need to analyse the reason for exactly why one gets into such a stage. Reasons can be many, but a good motivational spark and a clear vision in life will make change and I am sure the future can be bright. At times individual case based reasoning helps with the help of good friends.

I basically try to be effectionate with people around me. I expect the same thing from them. When they don’t return the same from them, I get depressed a lot. How to get out of the feeling ? how can I achieve satisfaction in my life ?

– we must be doing as we love it, not expecting any thing in return. Expectation is what is creating problem. Learn to be unconditional. I am sure one with good heart like you will be able to be loving people as they are and gain satisfaction in life. God bless you.

how can you be such an all rounder covering every profession ?

– how many fields you are perfect ? in which field you are not interested ? - Profession is that we choose with our qualification and interest matching with it. I could be fortunate enough to acquire a bit variety of qualifications and with the right time and opportunity to get into varied positions. My varied interest had been at times failure in some profession and I kept shifting it for good. Still I do not know what I will do or not do in the next future. It all happens and I am doing it because I am this and I cant keep not being me.

how to be a successful man ? how to build self-confidence?

– improve the activity and keep learning. Support of good opportunity, that is right place and time with proper decision will give success. Many a time succession of successes will improve confidence. Self-confidence comes with proper evaluation and with the support of wise people around.

I am not communicating with others because of fear, what to do ?

– u know that u have fear. It could be because of lack of skill, or due to some bad experiences, or lack of practice. May need special individual guidance. Or having known the problem, find the reason and can makeup the gaps and I am sure you will be able to perform well. God bless you.

can we be perfect all the time ? (As a human everyone commits mistakes, I think)

– never any one is perfect all the time, it is not possible too. It is true many makes many mistakes. Mistakes are relative, when, where, who, to whom, what one does matters. Try to reduce and be selfless as much as one can. Keep doing activity that will make one say “Oh, I should not have done it” after the action / words that one does. Self approval with dignity and self-actualization in life is what one has to aim. Nothing and no-one is perfect.

how to be creative ?

– be simple / accidental / instant in action / natural – not sophosticated / not social / not artificial / not moderated / not polished; will be the way to be creative. Backed with education, exposed to large experience, being with people who think different and variety of life…

I don’t have a great aim except to make my parents happy because of me. Is it not the correct aim?

– at times in the young age, yes, it is good to have the aim for making happy. Then when get married making husband happy, then for the kids … is it life that is for others? Then for you? I am sure one can make the other happy only when we are happy ourselves. I am sure indirectly you bind your happiness with the others around you; choose the best one around you, and that will give you happiness. You have opened-up a new thought in me and I am glad. I hope u r right dear.

- is every person born to do great things in a great way? Then what about the things which aren’t so great? Who is going to do them?

- for any individual what they do is of importance, but for the general person / public / society what is concerned is that one discuss.

how to divert attention from that one had troubled the mind and remind us as the reason for the problem is daily in contact / presence ?

– it is all the way one thinks of it. Nothing is more important than the self and the self life. Anything that becomes a reason for the non-performance / creating a bright future for the self is a trouble and that need to be removed. Decide the activity that will make the life better and show that all that is not in line with the self is to be avoided.

do you really think that doing things different can change your life, the way we lead our life?

– yes, the way of life is decided by the self and that will make a lot of difference in what we will be in life.

what is the work in which you never got satisfaction?

– many activities in life are in bag that I didn’t get satisfaction. These are the start for life and the path must lead to finding the activity that one enjoy and get full satisfaction.

some time I get hurt by imagining high for no reason – u know that it is just imagination, then why?

One can be active enough in creative things, and divert the activity.

how to stop smoking ?

– decide to STOP smoking. Also try to act as if you are smoking with a pencil between fingers leading to lips to take air in as one smoke.

how can I contact you if I feel that I am lost ?

– search me on net ‘drtps’

how can the reservation (hesitation) in talking to others can be removed ?

– keep practice, never have bad intensions in mind. Love all of them equal and same style. Know the limit and relations one has to keep. Be with friends and treat all of them equal and fair.

– how to improve eye-sight ?

- I guess the problem at young age is myopia (short-sight). See that the lens changes at good interval till the age of 20. After that laser treatment can be tried. Practice the best style in keeping the book for reading, parallel to the eye at the same height, not staining the eyes.

How to manage failures and downfalls after they have occurred ?

– move on to other activities and forget what had happened.

how to reduce stress while I am out of my home ? how to be courageous ?

– create good friends and have faith and love in them. Be with people and be more social, enjoy being with them.

why should we serve god ?

– god do not require any one to serve him. It is for the individual to have strength that he goes behind god. May not be one exist in this world like god.

how important education is in life? Is it mandatory to each and every individual ? talent / education – what is important ? –

education is important as the life can be build only when one be aware of the avenues in life. Know the world and that will give life options more and can grow higher and higher. Talent will be make success. But education only can teach options.

student from US suffocating !!

Hello Sir,


I attended the seminar taken up by you in Ramakrishna Matt , Hyderabad.
Currently, i am pursuing my master's in Electrical from .... college, US. I very well remember you addressing the crowd that if we think we have learnt something from your seminar, you expect us to contact you not that very night but after an year.

I have a problem that i have a lack of focus in whatever job i perform, though i manage to get a 4.0 GPA here, i somehow feel i lack something in my life, and i am not really satisfied with what i am.i cant go out with friends, cant enjoy the life the way others do, i feel i dont deserve all this, and i strongly feel if i enjoy today tomorrow morning something very bad will happen.Its suffocating, it really is...please suggest me something.


Thanking you,

yours sincerely,
your student

How to maintain - Relation / Friendship - PROBLEM ?/

sir,
this is jayasree completed my btech first year,
i think i cant maintain good relations with friends and relatives.
how to make friends and maintain good relation ..
JAYASREE


Dear Jayasree:
Hope you have the reference from one of my classes at VIHE/mat at hyderabad?

U guess, u have problem, then u have.
First remove that feeling.
U r a good girl, good frined, good relative.
As human being, we are social and human by nature.
That is why this feeling and question too..
U want to be social and human.
U can. When u make others happy, alll around u must feel happy in
being with you.
accept people as they are.
no comments and complaints.
accept them and keep them at the place they deserve to be.
too much close can end up in bad relations later.
be with them when they need you, with out hurting you..
u can.
this question is the start for the change.
i am glad and happy to see these questions.
Many do have these problems, but they dont come out.
I am sure this email will make a change in you think different.

You need to find common interest and people of similar frequencey to
maintain relation.
It all depends on your interest too..
u first must enjoy yourself and be happy inside to serve happiness.


you can be active and part of the activity
SIKSHA
http://drtps-shiksha.blogspot.com/
see my other blogs too ffrom the link below.

Best wishes and paryers.
Sasneham
drTPS

BACK - GROUND and SERVE the NATIOn ?!!

Hello Sir,

First of all let me pray God to give u long life and strength to continue your indispensable contribution to our motherland.
Your way of enlightening the youth and ideas towards spiritual thoughts is exceptional.

I came to know about you through orkut and just admired your career path that is achieved in young age.

I am Baskar from Tamil Nadu. I needed some peculiar career oriented advice. I hope you could mentor me well and guide through.
I have completed my mechanical engineering and now working for an American MNC in India.
Although i have scored good marks in 10th and 12th, my under graduation went in the other way. I lost interest when i joined college in studies for no reason, although its a good engg college.
I had arrears in first year, and the second year was even worse. I was detained due to lack of attendance and has to take a one year break.
All this happened before i could realize that i m moving in wrong path. But when i joined again after one year the scenario was different. I acquired interest in subjects and started to learn new things.
Not only i passed my arrears, also scored good marks. During my final year i was without arrears and acquired good knowledge in subject. My performance was high that i could almost topped the class
in some subjects. I also got good exposure to practical knowledge as my final year project was awarded one of the best project.
And when i was in end of my college i could stay on top with other class mates. I was also placed in good company.

Now my question is how will the people see that one year break? Is it a black mark? I am planning to give ISRO, DRDO and other competitive exams now, as i love working for India.
Will that backlog affect my carrier? How to get rid of it? A mistake is a mistake but how to turn it in a positive way? How should i explain that to the interview person?

Can i do a PG in engg and will that backlog fade away after my PG degree.? How do u approach my case if u r a recruiter.?

I would be really grateful if u could clarify my doubts and give some advice.
Please consider this as my personal mail.

Thanks,
Baskar.

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Dear Bhaskar:
Glad and nice to see your email and comments.

I guess u r in chennai?

back-ground performance do matter.
But the isro/drdo screening is generally based on the final marks.
It all depends on the selection committee at the time of interview.
Your performance can compensate all that.
Best wishes.

You can may be serve the nation better, being out.
I am glad to see the project / and the continyued interest you have.

I have some activity in plan for the engineering college students.
Just in plan / start stage.
And do god get me good contacts at right time.
I guess, u r one who has been posted by such activity of unknown to me.

Please see the SHIKSHA at
http://drtps-shiksha.blogspot.com/


We could plan such activity and make a reserch centre and self-help
groups with large projects for the nation.

I am sure with people like you, it can be a great success.

You will see many from Kurukshethra to kerala active and having lot of
ideas, playing role in this.

see the blog, comment, guide, be part of this move,
tamil nadu have great scope..
and i wish to be more active in south.

With prayers
Sasneham
drTPS